The Power of Blessing!
III (of a series)
1/29/2012
Ps
128:1 128 Blessed are all who fear the Lord, who walk in his ways. 2 You
will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be
yours. 3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your
sons will be like olive shoots around your table. 4 Thus is the man
blessed who fears the Lord. 5 May the Lord bless you from Zion all the
days of your life; may you see the prosperity of Jerusalem, 6 and may
you live to see your children's children. Peace be upon Israel. NIV
Prov 10:6 Blessings crown the head of the
righteous, but violence overwhelms the mouth of the wicked. NIV
I.
One of the great
truths and understanding that every child of God must know is the fact
of blessing.
A.
God’s wonderful
thought towards everyone is His desire to bless each of His children.
One could say that it is God’s constant
thought to bless and bring the best to His children.
1.
This blessing
mentality is portrayed in the words “crown the head” (are on the head)
in Proverbs 10:6. These words draw
attention to the reality of good that is upon those who are under God’s
blessing.
2.
Each child of God
must fully grasp the great promises of God and the full extent of what
the blessings of God do in their life.
3.
These blessings,
which come from God should encompass everything about our life and
propel us to the full extent of righteousness and purity that depicts
God’s children.
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Once we understand, believe, and walk in the blessing principles we
then can project those truth to others.
1.
The others we
project the blessings to are family, friends and associates.
By project I mean that we live a life that
blesses others in tangible and intangible ways. No only with words but
in action of goods and help.
2.
Obviously, the first
place we start with blessing is in our immediate family; spouse,
children and parents.
II.
Blessings should be
one of the most important functions we know and carry out amongst those
we have intimate relationship with.
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Husband and wives should know the power of blessing each other;
parents should understand the power that is available to them
promote the best for and in their children, and children should
comprehend the spiritual and emotional good that comes to them and
their parents when they learn to bless.
1.
Husband and wives:
a.
The husband is
the leader in the marriage covenant and as such must walk in the full
responsibility of that position. Eph
5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave
himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing
with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a
radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy
and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives
as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all,
no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as
Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31
b.
The wife is the
help meet in the marriage covenant and as such should be treated with
full respect and the understanding that she helps the man come to his
full potential. Her importance is found in Probers 31.
Eph 5:22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to
the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the
head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the
church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands
in everything. "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother
and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." 32 This
is a profound mystery — but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself,
and the wife must respect her husband. NIV
Husbands and wives should make it an important
part of their marriage to bless one another.
You could use the following:
Husband,
verbally bless your wife as you lay hands on her head and say…
I bless you (say her name) and love you, I
know you are my friend, helper, and are God given to me.
I bless you with health, peace, and sound
mind.
I bless you with understanding that I am for
you and have your best interest of mind and soul.
I bless you with my strength to help you to be
radiant in mind and soul and to help present you to God, holy and
without blemish.
I bless you because you are my body as I am
yours.
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Wife,
verbally bless your husband as you lay hands
on his head and say…
I bless you (say his name) and love you, I
know you are my friend, helper, and are God given to me.
I bless you with health, peace, and sound
mind.
I bless you as the head of our marriage and
believe God has called you to this position.
I bless you as I submit myself to you and to
your best interests.
I bless you with respect, honor, and
forgiveness.
I bless you and will do my best to help you
realize your full potential.
I bless you because you are my body as I am
yours.
2.
Children:
a.
Children are a
blessing from God and are the God give proof of love.
Ps 127:3 Sons are a heritage from the Lord,
children a reward from him. 4 Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are
sons born in one's youth. 5 Blessed is the man whose quiver is full of
them. They will not be put to shame when they contend with their enemies
in the gate. NIV
b.
Because God has
given you children it is your responsibility to help them become
everything God intends for them. As a
whole, your children become an example of what you have planted in their
lives. Therefore blessing them is so very important and one in which you
must be very diligent.
c.
As the high
priest was to bless the children of Israel parents should put God’s name
upon their children. Num 6:22 The
Lord said to Moses, 23 "Tell Aaron and his sons, 'This is how you are to
bless the Israelites. Say to them: 24 "'"The Lord bless you and keep
you; 25 the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; 26
the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace." ' 27 "So they
will put my name on the Israelites, and I will bless them." NIV
By blessing your child with this prayer
you are on calling God to bless them as you bless them and are willing
to carry out your part of the blessing.
d.
When you learn to
bless your child you are learning to think good thoughts and encouraging
thoughts which helps the child as he/she hears your best for them. In
turn they will desire to live those things.
e.
Use your faith
as you bless your children; speak those things that are not as though
they were. There are many places in
scripture that states “By faith…blessed…”
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Speak a blessing that
corresponds to the gifts and talents you see in your child.
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Speak a blessing that
corresponds to our desires for their lives.
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Speak a blessing as
you sense what the Holy Spirit would have you say.
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Speak a
blessing based upon the promises of God for your child.
2 Peter 1:3 His divine power has given us
everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him
who called us by his own glory and goodness. 4 Through these he has
given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you
may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the
world caused by evil desires. NIV
You could pronounce a blessing upon your child
like the following which is based upon 2 Peter 1:3-4…
I bless you (say the child’s name) with divine
power which comes from God to give you everything you need in life and
godliness. I bless (say the child’s name) with the knowledge of God who
has called you by His own glory and goodness. I bless (say the child’s
name) with the knowledge that God has given you great and precious
promises and that you may participate in God’s divine nature and escape
the corruption that is in this world. I bless (say the child’s name)
with good and Godly desire and to refrain from worldly desires.
I bless you (say the child’s name) because I
love you and thank God for you!
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The Power of Blessing!
II (of a series)
1/22/2012
Gen
1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created
him; male and female he created them. 28 God blessed them and said to
them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it.
Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every
living creature that moves on the ground." NIV
I.
The power and
reality of blessing can not be taken for granted or belittled without
suffering the consequence in the negative.
Blessing is an outward manifestation of God’s
will and direct input into the life of the individual being blessed.
A.
When God blessed Adam
(mankind) He was giving Adam the necessary tools, power, and ability to
realize the benefits of that which was spoken over them.
1.
The blessing was not
an ideal or powerless pronouncement it contained spiritual and natural
ability that would manifest when acted upon by the recipient.
a.
The ruling, subduing,
and filling was in the hands of Adam (mankind), but if so chosen, would
bring about tremendous blessing and prosperity to all.
II.
The blessing
stands as substituted evidence for redemption. God
blessed mankind with substituting His Son for mankind. The blessings of
the first born son (Jesus is God’s one and only) comes upon us.
Gal 3:13 Christ redeemed us from the
curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: "Cursed
is everyone who is hung on a tree." 14 He redeemed us in order that the
blessing given to Abraham might come to the Gentiles through Christ
Jesus, so that by faith we might receive the promise of the Spirit. NIV
Other
examples of redemptive blessing. The first born son’s blessing is given
to someone else. Gen 48:20 He blessed
them that day and said, "In your name will Israel pronounce this
blessing: ‘May God make you like Ephraim and Manasseh.'" So he put
Ephraim ahead of Manasseh. NIV This
example and the example of Joseph over Ruben (Gen
48:21 And Israel said unto Joseph, Behold, I die: but God shall be with
you, and bring you again unto the land of your fathers. 22 Moreover I
have given to thee one portion above thy brethren, which I took out of
the hand of the Amorite with my sword and with my bow. KJV),
of Jacob over Esau (Gen 25:23 The Lord
said to her, "Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples from within
you will be separated; one people will be stronger than the other, and
the older will serve the younger." NIV)
A.
When we chose to
bless and understand the reality of blessings we are standing on faith
to the promises of God, the spiritual power to see that promise come
about, and divine preference of God’s favor upon us and our children.
1.
The preference
of God is that He chose us over His Son and saved us by His Son’s death.
Rom 5:6 You see, at just the right
time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. 7 Very
rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man
someone might possibly dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates his own love
for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 9 Since
we have now been justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved
from God's wrath through him! 10 For if, when we were God's enemies, we
were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more,
having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! NIV
a.
God’s Son is the
allotment blessing give to mankind. If we fuse that blessing we
relinquish all those things that God wants to bless us with.
b.
When we refuse
or are ignorant of blessing we are denying those things
(all that God wants to give us)
to one another, our children and our associations.
III.
Blessing should
flow from our mouths as well as our lives.
Eph 4:29 Let no corrupt communication proceed
out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that
it may minister grace unto the hearers. KJV
1 Peter 3:9 Do not repay evil with evil or
insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called
so that you may inherit a blessing. 10 For, "Whoever would love life and
see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful
speech. NIV
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Always remember, your words, coming from your mouth, spoken with
understood intention and grace releases the full affect of the
blessing. 1 Peter 4:11 If anyone speaks,
he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. NIV
The words of God are always good,
uplifting, and blessing words.
1.
Our children,
family and friends should hear us blessing them.
It is not enough just to have good thoughts
you must use audible and verbal words.
Ps 122:8 For the sake of my brothers
and friends, I will say, "Peace be within you." NIV
2.
Blessing words
reinforce your favor, friendship, and love to the recipient.
IV.
We must know
that we have been blessed, receive it and then pass it along.
Do you fully know that God sent His Son to die
for you, to bless your life with forgiveness, and to bring the full
potential of all the God is into your life?
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Learn to meditate on the reality of the full blessings of God in
your life.
1.
Know that you are
blessed with a good tomorrow and further.
2.
Know that you are in
God’s good grace and mercy.
3.
Know that you are
God’s child and in His family.
4.
Know that God loves
and cherishes you.
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The Power of Blessing!
I (of a series)
1/15/2012
Luke
24:50 When he had led them out to the vicinity of Bethany, he lifted up
his hands and blessed them. 51 While he was blessing them, he left them
and was taken up into heaven. NIV
Jesus’ last act and ministry upon His disciples was the ministry of
blessing. He wanted them to not only be blessed but to understand the
way of blessing for those who follow Him.
Rom 12:14 Bless those who persecute you;
bless and do not curse. NIV
I.
The greatest reality
and truth that every person must come to is the fact of God’s blessing
upon their life.
A.
Without God’s blessing
a person stands under the curse that was brought about through Adam’s
sin and the continuance of the curse every since.
1.
When you came to
the Lord and accepted His sacrifice on your behalf you received the
blessing of God. Gal 3:13 Christ
redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it
is written: "Cursed is everyone who is hung on a tree." 14 He redeemed
us in order that the blessing given to Abraham might come to the
Gentiles through Christ Jesus, so that by faith we might receive the
promise of the Spirit. NIV
2.
In Jesus’
sacrifice and resurrection He made it a “fact-solidified reality” for
those who would walk in faith, acceptance and forgiveness that blessing
was to be their lot in life. That
“fact-solidified reality” is that Abraham’s blessing now belongs to
anyone who will receive forgiveness through faith and will walk in that
reality.
3.
It is so very
important that we come to grips with an eternal truth that declares that
we are “now sons and daughters of God!”
As sons and daughters of God we have an authority and power that those
who do not accept by faith Christ’s death and resurrection.
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As God’s children we now are to be a people of blessing and no
cursing. 1 Peter 3:8 Finally, all of you,
live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers,
be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult
with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so
that you may inherit a blessing. NIV
1.
The words we speak,
the action of our lives, and the example of our faith should be one of
continual blessing.
2.
You can’t be a
blessing if you refuse to walk in harmony, sympathy, love, compassion
and humility. But as children of God, with Him living inside of you, you
can be a blessing as you live those wonderful truths.
You have the power of “I can” residing within
your life through the Holy Spirit.
II.
To be a blessing
individual you must bless yourself and not bring cursing upon self.
Rom 12:14 Bless those who persecute
you; bless and do not curse. NIV
Obviously, you can’t bless others if you are cursing yourself or see
yourself of little or no worth.
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Learn to know your worth!
1.
You are
wonderfully made. Ps 139:14 I praise
you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are
wonderful, I know that full well. NIV
2.
You have been
bought with a price. 1 Cor 6:20 For ye
are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your
spirit, which are God's. KJV
3.
You are not the
tail. Through your obedience to God’s
word you have been made the head. Deut
28:12 The Lord will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to
send rain on your land in season and to bless all the work of your
hands. You will lend to many nations but will borrow from none. 13 The
Lord will make you the head, not the tail. NIV
4.
You made to
inherit a blessing. 1 Peter 3:9… but
with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a
blessing. NIV
We can break any curse that we have brought
upon ourselves by speaking the truths, above and just mentioned, over
ourselves.
III.
Since we have
blessed we can bless others and help them see their worth to God.
Luke 12:6 Are not five sparrows sold for two
pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. 7 Indeed, the very
hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more
than many sparrows. NIV
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Blessing is the power of good over the power of evil and helps other
out of darkness. Rom 12:21 Do not be
overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good. NIV
1.
When we actively
blessing others we are interjecting God’s ways, power, and will into any
situation and peoples lives. This is
like turn a switch that causes a light to radiate a room and dispel the
darkness.
2.
The choice of
blessing helps us as well as it puts our mind and heart in agreement
with God and His ways. This then
reinforces our determination to do things God’s way.
3.
When we choose to
bless we are refusing to permit cursing to flow from our lives.
4.
The choice of
blessing directs our mouth and our trek.
1 Sam 2:3 "Do not keep talking so proudly or let
your mouth speak such arrogance, for the Lord is a God who knows, and by
him deeds are weighed. NIV
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Blessing is a sign of maturity and others can benefit from our Godly
example. Matt 5:44 But I tell you: Love
your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may
be sons (a mature son – a partner
with his father) of your Father in
heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and
sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. NIV
1.
Being a blessing
individual gives proof that we truly believe what we speak and declare
from scripture.
2.
True Christian faith
and living always gives demonstration that we care, we help, and we
perform properly as God would. We do this blessing; being a blessing and
promoting blessing!
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